My name is Dita, and I’m a professional BDSM submissive  catering to the tastes of Dominant clients with an interest in BDSM or simply a taste for the wicked.

I am based in London, but I am available for bookings throughout the UK. My diary does fill up quickly, though, so you have a greater chance of securing the time of your choice when you give me as much notice as possible.

I have trained under a number of Doms, but prefer to remain uncollared and unattached, as I don’t have the temperament for a 24/7 or TPE relationship. When I am not being saucy, I pull off a passable imitation of a reasonably intelligent university graduate.

Vital Statistics

  • Date of birth: 7th September 1983
  • Star sign: Virgo
  • Orientation: bisexual, though heteronormative in the long term
  • Measurements: 32-28-36
  • Height: 5’4″
  • Weight:120 lbs
  • Build: average
  • Ethnic origin: Afro-Caribbean
  • Hair: black, mid-length
  • Eyes: black
  • Smoke: yes
  • Drink: socially
  • Drugs: never
  • Play: always safe and sane

How Did I End Up Here?

I have no idea who is going to be reading this, whether they are into the scene or not, or their level of knowledge about various aspects of sex work and BDSM. But I am aware that there are a number of misconceptions and prejudices surrounding both BDSM and sex work, so I will start with the basics and work my way through the most pertinent aspects.

After finding myself without a regular playmate, I advertised for partners on the internet. I’m not terribly into the munch or party scene, so didn’t consider finding a willing accomplice there. Unfortunately for me at the time, I didn’t choose the right websites and was inundated with vanilla prospects who were scared off soon after. It turned out that charging for my company was the most effective way of separating the wheat from the chaff, and so here we are.

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(This paragraph will only be of interest to you if you are determined to “save” me from myself)

Aside from cigarettes and social drinking, I don’t have any addictions; nor am I being forced into this by a controlling Master or pimp. This is something I have chosen to do, not a last resort. I have relatively high self-esteem, and I wasn’t abused or molested as a child, so I am not using my work as a means of working through any emotional issues. My main motivation for sex work in general — and BDSM in particular — is the fact that I am sexually submissive and enjoy regular play, without feeling the need for an exclusive Master-submissive relationship.